How to Deal With Long Distance Relationships

Many people agree that long distance relationships are hard to deal with. They come with many different entities that can make a person feel sad, sorrow, lonely, and whatever type of adjective that can be used to describe the feelings of a person having someone he or she loves miles and miles away.

Having your love one very far away from you doesn’t work out so easily with all relationships. Aside from the fact that long distance relationships are filled with lots of challenges, dealing with them also entails lots of patience and energy to keep them up.

More often, loneliness is commonly known to be one of the primary problems tackled by many people around the world who are currently involved in long distance relationships. This holds true when you are far away to study abroad and you left your love one in your country.

The loneliness you feel becomes more intense knowing that you also left your family back home. This could be really something hard and tough to deal with since you know in your mind that all of the existing relationships that you have now fell under the category of long distance relationships.

Although you have new acquaintances around, you can see and feel the difference on your own and overcoming the loneliness is definitely very hard to do. Much more when you think that you will be dealing on your own without your love one and your family helping you to cope up whenever you share your inner thoughts and feelings. This is the time when the so-called “emotional hangover” comes into the picture.

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How can You Deal with Long Distance Relationships Easily on Your Own?

 

When guys like you are in long distance relationships then you have to know that you are not the only one suffering from the loneliness this kind of relationship brings. However, you have to know that not all the good things around you can satisfy your longing feelings.

You will always come to the point of realization that there is always something missing that can never be replaced by any of the things or people you see around you. To help you deal with the loneliness brought about by long distance relationships, the following tips I have included here can be of great help on your part.

Get Out of Your Shell

Confining yourself in the four corners of your room contemplating and crying over the reality that you are far away from your love one is a wrong thing to do when dealing with a long distance relationships. Remember that you have your own life and sticking your thoughts at all times about him or her will never help you overcome your sadness. What you need to do is to get out of your shell and explore!

Socialize and Meet People

In our lives, people may come and go. We need people to be around us to help us make it through the days. Friends and confidantes serve as our helpful tools in dealing with our current situations. So when you are far away or has a love one abroad, never ever think to imprison yourself with his/her thoughts. Get out and meet people.

Enjoy

Having a long distance relationships does not necessarily mean you are not entitled for enjoyment. The truth is you are! Although enjoying something or someone can be a hard thing to do at first, you will come to the point of realization that you also need enjoyment to overcome your existing situation.

Learn to Trust

Meeting people entails developing and gaining your trust in them. Trust is a very important component in meeting new people and once you have achieved this, you will come to realize that dealing with long distance relationships can be as easy as others do!

Rediscover the Rest of Your Life

This is probably the first time you are dealing with a long distance relationships. Consider your situation as an opportunity to explore what you can do with your life without him or her. This can be a bit challenging but you will find out in the end that rediscovering the rest of your life can be a very rewarding task you have ever done so far.

Divert Your Loneliness

This is regarded as a shortcut but many have proven that diverting really works. You can do this by diverting your thoughts and temporarily fix it all along. There are many ways to divert your thoughts and focus. Say for example, you can join a hiking or mountain climbing team or you can also try new things like writing articles, blogging (in fact this has helped me a lot), painting, attending classes and worthwhile sessions, etc. by doing such things, you’ll be able to get two great benefits: you can overcome your loneliness and you can learn new things or make yourself an expert in the field which you are already familiar with.

Increase Your Circle of Friends

Friends are important people who need to be enhanced in your life. The more friends you have the better chances of recuperating from the loneliness you are currently dealing with. And when there are emergency situations, your love one who is far away can’t come to the rescue but your friends can. So, gain more friends as many as possible.

Pamper Yourself 

Many guys and gals out there who are dealing with long distance relationships tend to neglect their physical appearance. Hey! It isn’t the end of the world yet. Why don’t you get up from your couch and do yourself a favor? Pamper yourself. Buy yourself a new dress. Go to the spa and parlor.  Enhance your looks. Discover the new you. In the end, you will feel great looking new and when the time comes that you have to see each other again. Your love will be so much surprised on the way you have pampered and transformed yourself. Absolutely, he or she will love you even more!

It can be very hard to deal with long distance relationships but with the ways I have mentioned above, I was able to make my life happy and enjoyable even when my love one on the other side of the globe. If they worked on me then chances are, they will also work best for you! Good luck!

What do you think about long distance relationships? Any question and relationship tips to share? Leave your questions and comments below.

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  1. Lana James says:

    Sometimes it’s really hard to handle a long distance relationship. There are a lot of times in which you missed that person badly and you just want to pick him up from your mind and hug them for real. However, you have to cope with it when the situation calls for it. You know distance does not matter as long as the love, trust, loyalty, commitment and communication are present between the two of you.

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