Comments on: How to Identify If You Have Fallen in Love – Part 1 http://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/ Spreading Love Over Blogosphere Sun, 05 Sep 2010 16:27:29 +0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: christy.yonghttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-185 christy.yong Thu, 18 Dec 2008 05:13:22 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-185 Hey tipsgoda :) Thank you for loving this blog. I'm glad that you like the post here :) Hey tipsgoda :) Thank you for loving this blog. I’m glad that you like the post here :)

]]> By: Cupid Bloggerhttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-182 Cupid Blogger Wed, 17 Dec 2008 23:53:24 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-182 hi tipsgoda,thanks for visiting. hi tipsgoda,

thanks for visiting.

]]> By: tipsgodahttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-180 tipsgoda Wed, 17 Dec 2008 16:02:42 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-180 great post.love it..love this blog..:)<abbr><em>tipsgoda’s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/tipsg/~3/486664575/word-sayang-and-word-loveread-so-you.html" rel="nofollow">The Word 'Sayang' and The Word 'Love'.Read So You Dont Do This Mistake</a></abbr></em> great post.love it..love this blog..:)

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]]> By: studhttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-118 stud Tue, 09 Dec 2008 17:12:07 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-118 ok..true. guess shud talk to her bout it. Ok this one's ok i cud handle these insecurieties. thanks for the info and advice :) ok..true. guess shud talk to her bout it. Ok this one’s ok i cud handle these insecurieties. thanks for the info and advice :)

]]> By: Cupid Bloggerhttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-115 Cupid Blogger Tue, 09 Dec 2008 08:15:44 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-115 Christy,Thanks for the detailed explanation. I am sure Christy opinion will help Stud in a way...all the best :) Christy,

Thanks for the detailed explanation. I am sure Christy opinion will help Stud in a way…all the best :)

]]> By: christy.yonghttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-114 christy.yong Tue, 09 Dec 2008 07:07:48 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-114 Stud, you know what, when you try clearing those doubts and get the clarifications, try not to let your ego take over your rational piece of mind :) Because arguments and all happen when you are ego( believing in things that you've said-YOU ARE RIGHT AND SHE'S WRONG THEORY). Don't talk back when she clarifies, and stick to what she has just clarifies. Listen and believe in her as what she has just said. But if you just can't do it, and you keep having those doubts still, try to approach her again. Talk about it. Though you might quarrel during your conversations, keep things calm. Listen to her feelings instead of listening to her words alone. Listening to feelings and words will at least, give you a clearer clarification.If she has said things that have cleared your insecurities (on the spot itself), just stick to it and believe in her. If she doesn't gives you the securities YET in the conversation, talk to her again, till you are sure. But, if she has explained and you have AGREED on DAY 1, and you have doubts AGAIN on DAY 2 or 3, forget it. It's your lack of trust that is causing you to think of this.What do you think? Stud, you know what, when you try clearing those doubts and get the clarifications, try not to let your ego take over your rational piece of mind :) Because arguments and all happen when you are ego( believing in things that you’ve said-YOU ARE RIGHT AND SHE’S WRONG THEORY). Don’t talk back when she clarifies, and stick to what she has just clarifies. Listen and believe in her as what she has just said. But if you just can’t do it, and you keep having those doubts still, try to approach her again. Talk about it. Though you might quarrel during your conversations, keep things calm. Listen to her feelings instead of listening to her words alone. Listening to feelings and words will at least, give you a clearer clarification.

If she has said things that have cleared your insecurities (on the spot itself), just stick to it and believe in her. If she doesn’t gives you the securities YET in the conversation, talk to her again, till you are sure. But, if she has explained and you have AGREED on DAY 1, and you have doubts AGAIN on DAY 2 or 3, forget it. It’s your lack of trust that is causing you to think of this.

What do you think?

]]> By: studhttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-110 stud Mon, 08 Dec 2008 16:01:23 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-110 thanks Cupidblogger. How true indeed. Well ive made all my doubts, insecurities and everything clear and these led to most of the arguments when my ego gets in the way coz naturally id want to be the best among the rest.Tho for the moment everything is fine and that theres no comparison. But the insecurities that ur not her preference sometimes disturbs. and EddyEffendi, sounds like ur a christian here when u said tat "theres a time for everything" lol well yeap a serious one and it helps alot tho i just dislike being the lower ranked guy. thanks Cupidblogger. How true indeed. Well ive made all my doubts, insecurities and everything clear and these led to most of the arguments when my ego gets in the way coz naturally id want to be the best among the rest.Tho for the moment everything is fine and that theres no comparison. But the insecurities that ur not her preference sometimes disturbs.
and EddyEffendi, sounds like ur a christian here when u said tat “theres a time for everything” lol
well yeap a serious one and it helps alot tho i just dislike being the lower ranked guy.

]]> By: christy.yonghttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-104 christy.yong Sun, 07 Dec 2008 23:01:53 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-104 Yes, Stud, Eddy is right. This is a crucial communication with your partner. Talk to her. Communicate your thoughts :) Yes, Stud, Eddy is right. This is a crucial communication with your partner. Talk to her. Communicate your thoughts :)

]]> By: Eddy Effendihttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-100 Eddy Effendi Sun, 07 Dec 2008 17:53:19 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-100 Hi Stud. There is always a time for everything. Are you in a serious relationship with her now? Try to discuss you feeling with her, it will help... Hi Stud.
There is always a time for everything.
Are you in a serious relationship with her now? Try to discuss you feeling with her, it will help…

]]> By: Cupid Bloggerhttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-99 Cupid Blogger Sun, 07 Dec 2008 17:51:31 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-99 First, comparison shouldn't be made in a relationship. It sounds like a real insult to the other partner when the the partner starts talking bout the experience they have been through with their exes. It is a definite no-no! Talk to you gf about how you feel about it instead of keeping all in your heart. Affection and love should be felt in a relationship itself. Try to talk to your gf about your doubts, insecurities and whatever you've felt in your relationship. Once she has explained it all, and you are satisfied with the clarification, learn to trust her and accept her for what she is. A relationship without trust will oly lead to one and only way- DESTRUCTION. So, talk and trust her, Stud. All the best :) First, comparison shouldn’t be made in a relationship. It sounds like a real insult to the other partner when the the partner starts talking bout the experience they have been through with their exes. It is a definite no-no! Talk to you gf about how you feel about it instead of keeping all in your heart. Affection and love should be felt in a relationship itself. Try to talk to your gf about your doubts, insecurities and whatever you’ve felt in your relationship. Once she has explained it all, and you are satisfied with the clarification, learn to trust her and accept her for what she is. A relationship without trust will oly lead to one and only way- DESTRUCTION. So, talk and trust her, Stud. All the best :)

]]> By: studhttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-93 stud Sun, 07 Dec 2008 16:28:22 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-93 im delighted to say tat im actually in 1st love where it can also be considered second love tho the 1st was too short to consider a 1st which wasnt official. Im dating a gf whos dated multiple guys since her early teens, and talking about experience shes had em more than me and i wonder if it matters to her and if theres a tendency of comparing me with the exes, but this wud be our 1st adult relationship tho, so i think the process of getting in love for her is normal and routined but for me its not so sometimes i cudnt feel the real affection and pure love from her tho and id tend to doubt and feel insecure about myself. any advice wud be appreciated here ;) im delighted to say tat im actually in 1st love where it can also be considered second love tho the 1st was too short to consider a 1st which wasnt official. Im dating a gf whos dated multiple guys since her early teens, and talking about experience shes had em more than me and i wonder if it matters to her and if theres a tendency of comparing me with the exes, but this wud be our 1st adult relationship tho, so i think the process of getting in love for her is normal and routined but for me its not so sometimes i cudnt feel the real affection and pure love from her tho and id tend to doubt and feel insecure about myself.
any advice wud be appreciated here ;)

]]> By: christy.yonghttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-81 christy.yong Sun, 07 Dec 2008 12:08:28 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-81 Thanks Wen Boy =) Thanks Wen Boy =)

]]> By: WenBoyhttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-80 WenBoy Sun, 07 Dec 2008 11:57:56 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-80 errr... good job!! =D errr…
good job!!
=D

]]> By: Cupid Bloggerhttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-61 Cupid Blogger Sun, 07 Dec 2008 09:20:55 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-61 @LiewCFThanks for dropping by..my pleasure to have you visit and read our blog post...:)@arglieboyIt is not have to identify whether are u in love or not..it is all about you and your inner feelings...thanks for your comments :) @LiewCF

Thanks for dropping by..my pleasure to have you visit and read our blog post…:)

@arglieboy

It is not have to identify whether are u in love or not..it is all about you and your inner feelings…thanks for your comments :)

]]> By: christy.yonghttp://cupidblogger.com/how-to-identify-if-you-have-fallen-in-love-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-21 christy.yong Sat, 06 Dec 2008 21:45:55 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=24#comment-21 LOL. Thanks for your comment, arglieboy :) Different people have different perceptions. Perhaps that's what they have encountered and that they are living with it happily till today. Thanks for reading anyway :) LOL. Thanks for your comment, arglieboy :) Different people have different perceptions. Perhaps that’s what they have encountered and that they are living with it happily till today. Thanks for reading anyway :)

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