Comments on: Long Distance Relationship: Love The Distance Or Distance The Love? http://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/ Spreading Love Over Blogosphere Sun, 05 Sep 2010 16:27:29 +0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Michaelhttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1187 Michael Thu, 27 Aug 2009 23:28:53 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-1187 I sit here on my computer searching the internet because i have nothing better to do right now.. and i stumble onto this page and am very intrigued. I am in a long distance relationship, and every single thing you listed is something that every couple needs to work on in a relationship. You hit the nail on the head honey. We are lonely, we hurt for our lover, and our mind definitely wanders. But if you honestly love your partner before the distance, then everything should be fine. Love can concur anything, and a little thing like distance would never be the reason why our relationship would end. If you stay honest, faithful, and set up some "guidelines" then things will work - like calling each other every night, making sure that not only one person is visiting the other. I view any relationship like this (as vague as it may be) your relationship is like a job. You either do the work, or when the work isn't worth it, you quit or get fired. If anyone stumbles upon this I hope you realize anything is possible, and a long distance relationship is more than possible. I sit here on my computer searching the internet because i have nothing better to do right now.. and i stumble onto this page and am very intrigued. I am in a long distance relationship, and every single thing you listed is something that every couple needs to work on in a relationship. You hit the nail on the head honey. We are lonely, we hurt for our lover, and our mind definitely wanders. But if you honestly love your partner before the distance, then everything should be fine. Love can concur anything, and a little thing like distance would never be the reason why our relationship would end. If you stay honest, faithful, and set up some “guidelines” then things will work – like calling each other every night, making sure that not only one person is visiting the other. I view any relationship like this (as vague as it may be) your relationship is like a job. You either do the work, or when the work isn’t worth it, you quit or get fired. If anyone stumbles upon this I hope you realize anything is possible, and a long distance relationship is more than possible.

]]> By: jamiehttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1078 jamie Wed, 29 Apr 2009 13:57:16 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-1078 Thank you, Shin Chan.LOVE does crazy things to us. And we do crazy things out of LOVE. The greatest part in love is that, with all the sacrifices done and gone, we look back and still realise we didn't miss anything. You get what I mean?We're still very looking forward to tomorrow because we know the decision we made years ago - was the RIGHT decision.God is LOVE. And in Him, we love others. I believe you'll experience His utmost blessing and love - from the love you provide and the love you receive.Keep your heads up!Love on behalf of CupidBlogger team - jamie<abbr><em>jamie’s last blog post..<a href="http://jamiethewriter.blogspot.com/2009/03/huh.html" rel="nofollow">huh?!</a></em></abbr> Thank you, Shin Chan.

LOVE does crazy things to us. And we do crazy things out of LOVE. The greatest part in love is that, with all the sacrifices done and gone, we look back and still realise we didn’t miss anything. You get what I mean?

We’re still very looking forward to tomorrow because we know the decision we made years ago – was the RIGHT decision.

God is LOVE. And in Him, we love others. I believe you’ll experience His utmost blessing and love – from the love you provide and the love you receive.

Keep your heads up!

Love on behalf of CupidBlogger team – jamie

jamie’s last blog post..huh?!

]]> By: ShinChanhttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-1073 ShinChan Tue, 28 Apr 2009 07:40:08 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-1073 Man, all the comments strike me. Nice post Jamie. =)I maybe gonna face this problem next year because of my other half maybe going to oversea and study. We promise to go oversea together and take Master but it seems abit blurry now. =/ I might be selfish if i don't let her go, but as time goes i felt like she wanna stay with me.As for me, i had the chance to go oversea 2 years ago. But i chose to stay by her because for me, no matter where am i in this world, as long as i am with her i will be allright. Not to say i am sticky type of guy or what, but i think if i am a 'high quality' guy i can get good result here in Malaysia uni as well.Now i pray to God to show me the way.<abbr><em>ShinChan’s last blog post..<a href="http://neverwin-shinchan.blogspot.com/2009/04/weather-report.html" rel="nofollow">Weather Report</a></em></abbr> Man, all the comments strike me. Nice post Jamie. =)

I maybe gonna face this problem next year because of my other half maybe going to oversea and study. We promise to go oversea together and take Master but it seems abit blurry now. =/
I might be selfish if i don’t let her go, but as time goes i felt like she wanna stay with me.

As for me, i had the chance to go oversea 2 years ago.
But i chose to stay by her because for me, no matter where am i in this world, as long as i am with her i will be allright.
Not to say i am sticky type of guy or what, but i think if i am a ‘high quality’ guy i can get good result here in Malaysia uni as well.

Now i pray to God to show me the way.

ShinChan’s last blog post..Weather Report

]]> By: jamiehttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-581 jamie Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:53:28 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-581 Beloved ReadersI'm glad Cupid Blogger Dot Com and this post connect all of us from different parts of the world. Undeniably, love is the greatest! Let's share our love and make this world a better place *hugs*Love jamie<abbr><em>jamie’s last blog post..<a href="http://jamiethewriter.blogspot.com/2009/01/two-sides-of-door.html" rel="nofollow">two sides of a door</a></em></abbr> Beloved Readers

I’m glad Cupid Blogger Dot Com and this post connect all of us from different parts of the world. Undeniably, love is the greatest! Let’s share our love and make this world a better place *hugs*

Love
jamie

jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

]]> By: jamiehttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-580 jamie Thu, 29 Jan 2009 02:50:21 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-580 Mirna, you go girl! Love stories like yours will give hope to loverbirds all around the world.Cheers!<abbr><em>jamie’s last blog post..<a href="http://jamiethewriter.blogspot.com/2009/01/two-sides-of-door.html" rel="nofollow">two sides of a door</a></em></abbr> Mirna, you go girl! Love stories like yours will give hope to loverbirds all around the world.

Cheers!

jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

]]> By: Mirnahttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-578 Mirna Wed, 28 Jan 2009 17:01:49 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-578 @jamie,My current relationship started from online dating, continued with LDR. Phewww..............<abbr><em>Mirna’s last blog post..<a href="http://searchyourlove.info/what-are-the-odds-of-finding-mr-right-online.html" rel="nofollow">What Are the Odds of Finding Mr. Right Online?</a></em></abbr> @jamie,

My current relationship started from online dating, continued with LDR. Phewww…………..

Mirna’s last blog post..What Are the Odds of Finding Mr. Right Online?

]]> By: Cupid Bloggerhttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-575 Cupid Blogger Wed, 28 Jan 2009 01:50:45 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-575 I didn't know that your long term relationship is from the net. :) Hahaha..Online dating is even challenging than Long Distance Relationship. I am going to write on that topic soon.Stay tuned :) I didn’t know that your long term relationship is from the net. :) Hahaha..

Online dating is even challenging than Long Distance Relationship. I am going to write on that topic soon.

Stay tuned :)

]]> By: Alicjahttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-574 Alicja Tue, 27 Jan 2009 15:08:02 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-574 Dear mam :) It's really sad to hear your relationship has failed... It always pulls me down a bit hearing that someone has had a heartache because of no trust and lies. On the other hand, it makes me stronger also and smarter, helps me in not making some mistakes. It is true that the hardships of long distance relationships are sometimes very hard to overcome... But what does not kill us, makes us stronger, right? ;)I believe that each one of us, was created by God to Love and be Loved by someone, someone who was cut out only for us :) So please don't keep grudges too long, cause I'm sure you are a great girl and you deserve a true Love! So please, don't keep your doors closed for too long and when Love knocks on your door, don't let it wait for too long :D With best wishes for you,Alicja*keeps her thumbs up* Dear mam :)
It’s really sad to hear your relationship has failed… It always pulls me down a bit hearing that someone has had a heartache because of no trust and lies. On the other hand, it makes me stronger also and smarter, helps me in not making some mistakes. It is true that the hardships of long distance relationships are sometimes very hard to overcome… But what does not kill us, makes us stronger, right? ;) I believe that each one of us, was created by God to Love and be Loved by someone, someone who was cut out only for us :) So please don’t keep grudges too long, cause I’m sure you are a great girl and you deserve a true Love! So please, don’t keep your doors closed for too long and when Love knocks on your door, don’t let it wait for too long :D
With best wishes for you,

Alicja

*keeps her thumbs up*

]]> By: jamiehttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-571 jamie Tue, 27 Jan 2009 12:08:43 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-571 mam, the most important about failed relationships is that we learnt from it, improve and move on to love better... maybe even accepting the other person just as he/she is. and also, feel free to experince love once again *wink*<abbr><em>jamie’s last blog post..<a href="http://jamiethewriter.blogspot.com/2009/01/two-sides-of-door.html" rel="nofollow">two sides of a door</a></em></abbr> mam, the most important about failed relationships is that we learnt from it, improve and move on to love better… maybe even accepting the other person just as he/she is. and also, feel free to experince love once again *wink*

jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

]]> By: jamiehttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-570 jamie Tue, 27 Jan 2009 12:06:56 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-570 mam, the pleasure is mine to reply to you. I wish you all te best in your studies and as God loves us, may you find true love in due time. Keep ya heads up, gal... love is the greatest, and love will never cease.<abbr><em>jamie’s last blog post..<a href="http://jamiethewriter.blogspot.com/2009/01/two-sides-of-door.html" rel="nofollow">two sides of a door</a></em></abbr> mam, the pleasure is mine to reply to you. I wish you all te best in your studies and as God loves us, may you find true love in due time. Keep ya heads up, gal… love is the greatest, and love will never cease.

jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

]]> By: mamhttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-569 mam Tue, 27 Jan 2009 06:31:47 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-569 @Mirna, just enjoy the moment, it is so nice to love and be loved even in a distance. What is important is that you are happy to be with that person, and he is also happy to be with you. He was my first chat mate, and the only man in the world whom I gave so much time and attention. It was so hard on my part because love was developed along the way, however I believe that I do not have to go on in a relationship that is full of lies. I am just hoping he will not be my last chat mate (lol. I read some success stories of online love affair, and I really envy them, but we have different experiences, and each of us has our own story. I do not want to be involved in a relationship right now, either online or in real life.I have had two heartaches, but this was more painful than the previous one, however it does not mean that I will not allow myself to fall in love again, but as of now, I want to give myself a chance to experience the wondrous feeling of being alone, away from pain. And if someday I will fall in love again, I hope it will be for a lifetime commitment and happiness. Good luck to you and God bless us all. @Mirna, just enjoy the moment, it is so nice to love and be loved even in a distance. What is important is that you are happy to be with that person, and he is also happy to be with you. He was my first chat mate, and the only man in the world whom I gave so much time and attention. It was so hard on my part because love was developed along the way, however I believe that I do not have to go on in a relationship that is full of lies. I am just hoping he will not be my last chat mate (lol. I read some success stories of online love affair, and I really envy them, but we have different experiences, and each of us has our own story. I do not want to be involved in a relationship right now, either online or in real life.I have had two heartaches, but this was more painful than the previous one, however it does not mean that I will not allow myself to fall in love again, but as of now, I want to give myself a chance to experience the wondrous feeling of being alone, away from pain. And if someday I will fall in love again, I hope it will be for a lifetime commitment and happiness. Good luck to you and God bless us all.

]]> By: mamhttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-568 mam Tue, 27 Jan 2009 05:52:48 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-568 You are right Jamie, it was so hard. I got the courage to finally decide to cut everything about us because there came a time that I could not tolerate his lies anymore. It is very painful to lose him, but it is more painful to hold him knowing I do not trust him anymore. I just always remember what my mother told me when I failed the bar examinations; the All-seeing God does not play dice with our destinies,even pain has a purpose. I know someday I will still fall in love, at the right time with the right man. Right now, I am trying to give focus in my studies in the graduate school. Thank you for taking time to reply in my comment, I hope I help you understand more on what it takes to have a long distance relationship, specially to fall in love online. You are right Jamie, it was so hard. I got the courage to finally decide to cut everything about us because there came a time that I could not tolerate his lies anymore. It is very painful to lose him, but it is more painful to hold him knowing I do not trust him anymore. I just always remember what my mother told me when I failed the bar examinations; the All-seeing God does not play dice with our destinies,even pain has a purpose. I know someday I will still fall in love, at the right time with the right man. Right now, I am trying to give focus in my studies in the graduate school. Thank you for taking time to reply in my comment, I hope I help you understand more on what it takes to have a long distance relationship, specially to fall in love online.

]]> By: jamiehttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-565 jamie Tue, 27 Jan 2009 01:22:29 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-565 Mirna, it's hard enough to sustain a LDR, but online dating is even harder because we don't really know the other person. Although I'm not a fan of online dating, I found my first long-term relationship through the Internet.So, never say never. Love is in the air *wink*<abbr><em>jamie’s last blog post..<a href="http://jamiethewriter.blogspot.com/2009/01/two-sides-of-door.html" rel="nofollow">two sides of a door</a></em></abbr> Mirna, it’s hard enough to sustain a LDR, but online dating is even harder because we don’t really know the other person. Although I’m not a fan of online dating, I found my first long-term relationship through the Internet.

So, never say never. Love is in the air *wink*

jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

]]> By: Mirnahttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-564 Mirna Mon, 26 Jan 2009 15:25:44 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-564 @Mam,When I started to go online searching for my love in 2006, I had to go through some trivial relationship with several guys first until I met my current bf. All of them didn't show seriousness in the new relationship. Some disappeared just like that, with no news at all. Imagine how I felt, but I said to myself that I had to move on and not giving up on love.Your experience was something we all can learn from. It's tough, I know, I hope you can be strong and find your true love.<abbr><em>Mirna’s last blog post..<a href="http://searchyourlove.info/what-are-the-odds-of-finding-mr-right-online.html" rel="nofollow">What Are the Odds of Finding Mr. Right Online?</a></em></abbr> @Mam,

When I started to go online searching for my love in 2006, I had to go through some trivial relationship with several guys first until I met my current bf.
All of them didn’t show seriousness in the new relationship. Some disappeared just like that, with no news at all. Imagine how I felt, but I said to myself that I had to move on and not giving up on love.

Your experience was something we all can learn from. It’s tough, I know, I hope you can be strong and find your true love.

Mirna’s last blog post..What Are the Odds of Finding Mr. Right Online?

]]> By: jamiehttp://cupidblogger.com/love-the-distance-or-distance-the-love/comment-page-1/#comment-563 jamie Mon, 26 Jan 2009 13:47:17 +0000 http://www.cupidblogger.com/?p=1004#comment-563 Dearest Mam, thank you for sharing your experience with us here. I understand how difficult it is to go through such pain in a relationship and I know it must be very difficult to even express in words what you went through.You are very brave to make a wise decision to let him go and move on. You are very brave to gather te courage to share such heart-moving experience.I pray that you find true love with His guidance!Hugs!<abbr><em>jamie’s last blog post..<a href="http://jamiethewriter.blogspot.com/2009/01/two-sides-of-door.html" rel="nofollow">two sides of a door</a></em></abbr> Dearest Mam, thank you for sharing your experience with us here. I understand how difficult it is to go through such pain in a relationship and I know it must be very difficult to even express in words what you went through.

You are very brave to make a wise decision to let him go and move on. You are very brave to gather te courage to share such heart-moving experience.

I pray that you find true love with His guidance!

Hugs!

jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

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