Comments on: Marriage On Fire

By: jamie

jamie — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 04:23:04 +0000

Thank you for visiting, margit... your presence makes this blog even merrier. Do check our our latest blog post, and if you love this blog, subscribe to the RSS. Hope to see you around again soon.jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

By: margit

margit — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 23:15:53 +0000

great blog! i love to read it…keep up the good work!

By: jamie

jamie — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 02:00:19 +0000

thank you for dropping, josie... you are right, many couples fall into the trap of comfort and complacency after a long time being in a relationship. they tend to take the other person for granted. so, hope these tips will help them spark their relationships once again *wink*jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

By: josie

josie — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 01:33:33 +0000

great article jamie, not many couples can practice creating romance especially after a long time being in a relationship.

By: jamie

jamie — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 11:27:44 +0000

Jamie Sr., it's really a heartfelt sharing. Surprises are definitely not greater than LOVE. Love IS the greatest. And love does not force... when we love, it is automatic to shower him/her with affection. I hope these tips will help to 'hint' your husband to put in a little bit more effort to keep your marriage life interesting... *wink*jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

By: jamie

jamie — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 11:15:35 +0000

Thanks for dropping by Cory... feel to share any tips you have for our readers as well...jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

By: Jamie Sr.

Jamie Sr. — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 06:43:39 +0000

For me, i love to surprise and be surprised! I always surprised my hubby! Remembered 4 years ago, I ordered roses with bears + choc and sent to his office but to him, he will only buy the things i wanted. For the past 4-5 years, my hubby was only a 1, 4, 6 person and many times I needed to “hint” him to give me surprise. Even whenever we went out for dates, he just let me made decision what to eat, what to do. I began to feel boring in our marriage after quarrels, arguments, talks about this issue.

So, I paused to think. Why should I force him to change to a person that he is not? Does surprise more important than love? How to make him understand my feelings? I made a choice. I stopped nagging him. I even did not bother whether he remembers my birthday, anniversary or etc. I chose to adapt into his world and love him as who he is. Of course, I still do my part to surprise him all the times!

Guess what? He is now a romantic guy who gives love-cards and surprises! He also changed to adapt my world. To maintain a fresh, happy and healthy marriage life, we need to give and take. The GREATEST is LOVE. Without love, everything we do will be fake and pointless. By the way, we just celebrated our 8th anniversary last Dec! Thank God for His blessing.

One more thing to share, our daughter now is 6 years old and she is a 1, 2, 4, 5 person. She always surprised us with love notes, kisses, hugs and gifts! If a kid knew how to do this, how much more we as adult!!

By: Cory

Cory — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 04:16:42 +0000

Sparks fly

By: jamie

jamie — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 06:48:48 +0000

JC, glad that you find these tips helpful in giving some loving ideas to shower your love with romance... do share with us their reactions *wink*jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

By: jamie

jamie — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 06:32:39 +0000

Jocelyn, yes surprises keep relationships fun and expecting *wink*. It's mention on tip number 5...jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

By: jamie

jamie — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 06:31:16 +0000

Alicja, thanks for adding on your personal tips too... yes, indeed, these are very useful to keep relationships fresh, every single day... *hugs*jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door

By: Jocelyn

Jocelyn — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 19:44:48 +0000

you missed out surprises!
the relationship lacks variety. surprise your partner with something you’ve never done before, and catch him/her off guard.

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By: Alicja

Alicja — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 16:34:21 +0000

First of all Jamie, this is so useful article for all couples! I think all women after reading this, should drag their husbands to the computer and tell them to read the article… At least 2 times If all men and women remembered even 3 of those useful tips, I think the divorce rate wold decrease finally, eh? Personally, I am a very passionate lover and will make sure my partner knows every single day how much of feeling I have for him. Little hugs and kisses, gentle touches and sweet words can help a lot Simple acts of love as preparing a candle lit dinner or preparing a hot bath with bubbles and candles all around can bring passion into any relationship… Even going to the cinema, watching a film together, holding hands and laughing can make them realize how close they are. A bit of creativity from both sides can keep the flame burning and the spark between them will surely keep their feeling grow
So, all the guys out there… Go, and buy a flower not only on special occassions but a normal day for your partner! You’ll see it’s worth it and you won’t wait long to get something in return

By: JC

JC — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 14:01:26 +0000

Great great great… very nice tips from this article… I will tease,flirt and show my partner love and care everyday the fullest to keep our relationship fresh and romantic all the time… actually in every relationship.. just use these simple steps and the relationship will last forever.. take care

By: jamie

jamie — Sat, 07 Feb 2009 13:43:14 +0000

jerry, i'm glad that tip number 5 works for you. i believe she'll love the bracelet and love you more *wink*jamie’s last blog post..two sides of a door