Have You Ever…

Have you ever experienced such an incident where you have bumped into an attractive and smart-looking young lady and you felt like knowing her better? You have told your close friends and colleagues about her, asking them on advices such as getting her number, starting a conversation, etc with all sorts of suggested funny actions […]

Are You Ready For A New Relationship?

In my previous posts, I have talked about love definition, facts about love, knowing your pattern in relationships and even how to identify if you have fallen in love. Now, it is time to ask yourself if you are ready for a new relationship. You walked on the streets, seeing couples making their way, hand […]

Knowing Your Pattern of Relationship – Collateral Patterns Part 2

Avoidance Relationships Ø May involve people who protect themselves against any deep intimacy with others or any full contact with their own deeper feelings and people who have just came out of a relationship, who are afraid of painful feelings of loss, mourning, and failure that will eventually lead to splitting up Ø In some […]

Knowing Your Pattern of Relationship – Collateral Patterns Part 1

Healing relationships Ø Couples tend to talk about the past a lot, about struggle or loss that preceded their own relationship Ø They go over and over it, reliving it on different levels as they try to understand and come to terms with it Ø Characters: gentleness, support, and comfort rather than great passion Ø […]

Knowing Your Pattern of Relationship – Dominant Patterns Part 3

Acceptance Relationships Ø Trust, support and enjoy each other Ø When expectations are not overwhelming, when combative instincts are not too strong and inclinations not too dissonant, a scripted relationship can evolve into an acceptance relationship Ø When there are enough growth to keep couples together, and insecurities allow for honest reassurances, a validation relationship […]

Knowing Your Pattern of Relationship – Dominant Patterns Part 2

Scripted Relationships Ø    Often begins when partners are just out of high school or college Ø    Seem to be the “perfect pair” Ø    Marriage involves living out their expectations for roles they learned they were supposed to play Ø    Child-focused Ø    When career takes place, they will be the career-oriented couple even if they have […]

Knowing Your Pattern of Relationship – Dominant Patterns Part 1

Survival Relationships Ø    These happen when partners feel that they can never make it on their own and it’s based on: “Without you I am nothing, with you I am something” Ø    May involve physical as well as emotional such as the finding shelter, eating, working and paying bills Ø    Based more on “what I […]

Knowing Your Pattern of Relationship – Introduction

This typology was devised by Carmen Lynch, M.F.C.C., a couples and family therapist in private practice on the Peninsula south of San Francisco. Victor Daniels, Professor of Psychology at Sonoma State University took notes on a talk in which she described it, added two categories and a few additional ideas, and wrote it down in […]

In Depth Explanation About Love Characteristics

“Love is in the air!” “I love you” “I miss you” “I care for you”   Love is a magical and superb feeling, when you look at it; you are appreciating their presence in your life. Try to think about it. Love is an emotion, a feeling, and it feels really great when we fall […]

Guy Acted Silly When He Is In Love

Sitting down at your usual hangout, you took a glance at the surrounding. Nothing special, just books. You have been spending most of your time in this library ever since you have started taking up your master’s in construction management last year. “Will she be here again?” you asked yourself quietly. You gave a heavy […]